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Hello, everyone! First, let me say a big, warm thank you to each of you for being here tonight. Your support means more to my family and me than words can express. I wish I could be there with you, but for now, my voice will have to do the traveling. If only it could bring a plate of Syrian baklava with it, I’m sure that would convince you to bid just a little higher in the auction! Life here has been a journey of endless challenges, each day bringing its own set of struggles, sometimes more than we think we can bear. But through every hardship, we’ve held onto one thing with all our might: hope. Hope that one day, we’ll be able to leave behind the pain and uncertainty and finally reunite with my sister in Canada. Hope that our children will know what it’s like to wake up without fear, to dream freely, and to start a new chapter filled with joy, where their laughter echoes in a place of peace and security. I hear there’s a live auction happening tonight, and I have to admit, I’m a little jealous I can’t be there to share in the fun with you. Who wouldn’t want to walk away with something special, especially knowing that every bid is helping a family like mine get one step closer to their dreams? So, have fun, and please bid big, and if you win something amazing, just know my family and I are cheering you on from across the ocean! Jokes aside, your generosity tonight is doing something truly incredible. It’s helping to turn our dreams into reality, not just for me, but for my entire family. We’ve been through so much, but your support gives us something invaluable—hope. It’s the kind of hope that helps us believe in a brighter tomorrow, one where our children can thrive in a world of possibility. And speaking of tomorrow, if you ever need a laugh, just ask me how I’m planning to explain Canadian winters to my kids, they think snow is just frozen sand! I think their sandcastle-building skills might need some adjusting. By the way, I’m sure my sister will make you laugh sometime, she’s a bit too funny for her own good. So if you catch yourself smiling tonight, you can thank her for that! And if you really want to hear a good one, ask her about the time she thought she could teach the kids how to dance—mind you, she can’t dance herself! Within minutes, she managed to trip over her own feet, knock a lamp over, and start a game of ‘who can fall down the funniest.’ The kids now think that’s what dancing is! So, if you’re laughing tonight, it’s probably because we’re still recovering from that performance! In the end, from the bottom of our hearts, thank you, thank you, thank you. Your support means everything to us. Here’s to brighter days ahead and to the amazing people who make them possible—you! Enjoy the rest of the evening, keep those bids coming, and know that you’re part of something truly special. I can’t wait to see you all soon in Canada! Thank you, thank you, thank you!
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By Mark Brennae Daily Capital “For my brother's family, moving to an affluent country like Canada would mean more than just a change of address, it represents a lifeline and a chance for them to build a safer and more stable life,” Sasha Dani tells Capital Daily.
Please follow the link to read the full article https://www.capitaldaily.ca/news/group-moving-to-bring-syrian-refugee-family-to-victoria This July, my brother was struck down by a mini-bus in Lebanon. The driver, recognizing his Syrian accent, cruelly left him injured on the street. This incident highlights the discrimination and hardships faced by refugees who often cannot seek proper medical care due to their legal status. My brother tolerated over four months of pain because he lacked the necessary documentation required to be admitted to a hospital. Unable to secure the needed medical attention during my initial visit, I was compelled to return at the end of this September. With the assistance of a local nurse, we managed to arrange a doctor's visit in exchange for a financial incentive that was given to the nurse (in other words a bribe). The doctor diagnosed my brother with a fractured thumb that required surgical correction, which we proceeded with immediately. I also faced challenges in securing basic education for my brother's two young children, both under the age of 6. A private school required a financial incentive just to allow them to attend classes without any formal recognition or certification. Despite these barriers, my priority was ensuring they received some form of education, like any other child of their age. This journey, with multiple trips and days spent navigating through reroutes due to the Beirut airport closure due to the current war, was a complete reminder of the resilience required in the face of systemic obstacles. From flying to Dubai, then to Syria, and finally reaching Lebanon by taxi, every step was a proof to the commitment required to support our loved ones in crisis. Considering the tough circumstances in Lebanon, we hope that the process of bringing my brother and his family to safety will be expedited. Our work as a sponsorship group is vital. Every effort we make helps to lighten the burden on this Syrian family who have already suffered too much. Please attend our upcoming fundraising event and contribute in any way you can to support these efforts. Your generosity can make a significant difference in the lives of my younger brother’s family, who are seeking refuge and a more livable future. Let us continue to stand together in compassion and action. Did you know that one person in every 78 worldwide is forced to flee their homes each year, and most never return? (Amnesty International)
As World Refugee Day approaches on June 20th, I find myself reflecting deeply on the extraordinary journey that led me to Canada in 2016 -- a journey mirrored by millions around the globe. This day resonates profoundly with me, as it evokes memories of the trials, the resilience, and the solid hope that have defined my refugee experience. The path of a refugee is rarely a choice. It’s often a desperate escape from conflict, persecution, or violence. It’s a journey loaded with uncertainty, fear, and the relentless pursuit of safety and freedom. Like so many others, I boarded on this journey with a mixture of fear and determination, leaving behind familiar landscapes for an uncertain future. Arriving in Canada as a refugee marked the beginning of a new chapter in my life—one filled with both opportunities and challenges. I was met with open arms by welcoming communities and kind-hearted individuals who extended their compassion and understanding during my most vulnerable moments. These acts of generosity and solidarity have deeply touched me and reaffirmed my faith in humanity’s inherent goodness and resilience. This World Refugee Day, I reflect not only on my own journey but also on the countless journeys of others who have sought refuge and the chance for a better life. Refugees bring a wealth of skills, talents, and experiences to their new homes, enriching societies and contributing to diverse cultures. Their strength and determination are testimony to the determined spirit that defines the refugee experience. As I prepare for an emotional overseas reunion with my displaced siblings and their families, I am filled with anticipation and hope. Given the precarious situation in Lebanon and Syria, I will first fly to Dubai. There, I will spend a few days with my sister and assess the situation. If it is safe, I will proceed to Lebanon to visit my brother and his family. From there, if conditions permit, I will travel to Syria to see my two young nephews. I plan to share updates whenever possible, though this will depend on the internet and power situations in Lebanon and Syria. As I ready myself for this journey, I am profoundly grateful for the incredible support from our community. From the bottom of my heart, I thank everyone who contributed to our recent garage sale fundraiser. Every donation brings my brother and his family a step closer to safety. I also warmly invite you to a Syrian Evening, a Victoria Shows Love fundraising event this coming November 2nd. This special event will feature Syrian and local live music, delicious Syrian food, a licensed cash bar, live and silent auction, and plenty of fun. Victoria Shows Love is also planning a potential storytelling event before November, where storytellers will share their journeys with a sprinkle of humor. Keep an eye on our social media for dates and more information. I hope to see you there. As we mark World Refugee Day, I am reminded of Kofi Annan’s powerful words: "To be called a refugee is the opposite of an insult; it is a badge of strength, courage, and victory." Or, as Ban Ki-moon describes: "Refugees are people like anyone else, like you and me. They led ordinary lives before becoming displaced, and their biggest dream is to be able to live normally again. Let us stand together with them in solidarity." With heart-filled gratitude, Sasha Dani  Hey everyone! I recently started a new adventure that I never thought I'd try: I ran the TC 10K for the first time. Now, before you imagine a pro runner gracefully crossing the finish line, let me give you a clearer picture. Imagine someone who's only ever run to catch the bus (or to make a living), suddenly deciding to do a 10K race. Yep, that's the competitive me!
So, why did I do it? Well, it's a heartfelt story mixed with a bit of humor. I'm part of a group working on sponsoring my brother and his family to come to Canada. As I tied my running shoes, I realized that this run wasn't just about me. It was about honoring the journey of refugees like my brother and his family, who are seeking safety and a fresh start. As I stood at the starting line, nervous but determined, I couldn't help but think about the strength of refugees worldwide. They face big challenges and uncertainties, yet they keep moving forward with hope and courage. That spirit kept me going throughout the race. Let’s talk about the race itself with a newbie runner, surrounded by experienced athletes who probably have running posters in their rooms. I might have looked a bit out of place, but hey! we all start somewhere, right? The first few kilometers were a mix of excitement and "What did I get myself into?" thoughts. But as I found my pace, something magical happened. I started to enjoy the scenery, the friendship with fellow runners, and yes, even the occasional cramp that made me question my life choices. There were moments when I wanted to stop, to catch my breath and maybe rethink my decisions. But then I remembered why I was running. It wasn't just for me; it was for refugees who face even bigger challenges every day. As I crossed the finish line, a wave of emotions hit me. Relief, pride, and a bit of surprise that I had actually done it. And you know what? I did it for a great cause, and that made every step worth it. And speaking of steps, I couldn't help but think about my own journey of over 10,000 kilometers to reach Canada as a refugee. It's a journey that has shaped who I am today, and it's a reminder of the strength and resilience that refugees carry with them every step of the way. So, here's to celebrating not just the finish lines we cross, but also the incredible journeys that bring us to those moments. I hope to run this 10K with my brother sometime in the near future. Thanks for supporting me on this adventure, and here's to many more meaningful runs ahead. Group raises $35K and counting to bring Syrian refugee family to VictoriaA group of friends in Greater Victoria is working to support a Syrian refugee family’s journey to join their sister in B.C.’s capital city.
Sasha Dani lives in Victoria, and her brother and his family were forced to leave Syria because of the civil war that started in 2011. They escaped to the neighbouring country of Lebanon, where they are undocumented asylum seekers. Dani and the private group calling themselves Victoria Shows Love have raised over $35,000 for the refugee family. The group’s first fundraiser hosted traditional Syrian music, poetry and food at the Fernwood Community Centre on Nov. 4. Please follow the link to read the full article https://www.peninsulanewsreview.com/community/group-raises-35k-and-counting-to-bring-syrian-refugee-family-to-victoria-7321519 Listen to Sasha and Tysh' interview with CBC Radio
https://www.cbc.ca/listen/live-radio/1-93-all-points-west/clip/16026389-film-screening-raises-funds-awareness-syrian-family-trying As I do every day, I was at my local pool for exercise and enjoyment of the water. As I waded in, I passed two moms and a dad holding babies. With a big smile, I said how lovely it was to see the babies in the pool. The parents proudly smiled their acknowledgements. As a retired social worker I thought, this is classic attachment. Then, as I went about the routine of my exercise, a startling image returned to me of Alan Kurdi, his little three-year-old body splayed lifeless and alone on a Turkish beach. The contrast was disturbing, between those refugees who had to face water as a dangerous, unforgiving obstacle. An obstacle some would overcome and others whose lives would be snatched by it. We all saw that image of Alan in 2015; his mother, Rehen, and brother, five-year-old Galip, died at the same time, bereft of each other -- detatchment. This morning I was in the pleasure and safety of my local pool with those beautiful smiling babies and their parents.
As these occasional images do, it triggered action everywhere. Here in Canada, it set off a rush to privately sponsor Syrian refugees. The Canadian Government independently acted with urgency to cut much of the bureaucracy to get Syrians to safety. My wife, Nancy, and I joined a sponsorship group and brought in a Syrian family immediately following Alan Kurdi’s death. Meanwhile, Nancy and I quickly made available space in our basement for a government sponsored refugee family and we have remained friends with them ever since. In fact, all four of the refugee families we have been associated with have integrated and enriched communities across the Saanich Peninsula. But as with the searing photographs of Alan Kurdi, and the “Napalm Girl”, Pham Thi, Kim Phuc, who has as a Canadian citizen devoted her life to those displaced by war, they cycle out of the news to make room for the next crisis. And yet the crisis that brought Alan Kurdi to our attention not only continues but is so much worse. Over twelve million Syrians remain displaced, with over two million in Lebanon, tenuously surviving wherever they are. Nancy and I now belong to another sponsorship group, “Victoria Shows Love” (https://www.victoriashowslove.ca/), supporting a family of four to find safety out of Lebanon in Victoria. The sister of the husband in this family is a productive member of our community and our sponsorship group. On November 24 we will be presenting the inaugural showing of the Cannes award winning documentary, “Bigger Than US” at the Victoria Theatre as part of our fundraising. It features seven young activists who refuse to remain silent and inactive. They are: Melati, Indonesia (plastics pollution); Mohamad Al Junde, Lebanon (refugee education); Memory Banda, Malawi (child marriage); Mary Finn, Greece (Mediterranean refugee rescue); Xiuhtezcatl Matinez, USA (climate emergency); Rene Silva, Brazil (freedom of speech); Winnie Tushabe, Uganda (food security). My own grandniece, Mary Finn, is one of the young people featured. She skippered for years one of the fast pick-up boats rescuing refugees from those unforgiving waters in which Alan Kurdi and so many others are still dying, but every morning she still raises a flag of hope. They deserve our support, as do all the people they rise each morning to serve. Please join us in whatever way you are able: “To love. To be loved. To never forget your own insignificance. To never get used to the unspeakable violence and the vulgar disparity of life around you. To seek joy in the saddest places. To pursue beauty to its lair. To never simplify what is complicated or complicate what is simple. To respect strength, never power. Above all, to watch. To try and understand. To never look away. And never, never, to forget.” – Arundhati Roy, The Cost of Living Terence Stone: Member “Victoria Shows Love”, a private refugee sponsorship group registered with the Intercultural Association of Victoria. Terence Stone Email: [email protected] |
